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Appreciating
Your Life
Mr. Sonoda's Guidance on the Fourteen Slanders
From the International District Meeting II/30/00
The Daishonin taught that there are 14 things that prevent us from becoming
happy. Two of them are:
1) A mistaken viewv of our life. (We don't know who we are.); and
2) too much attachment to material things.
When we were young no one taught us how to walk. We were true to our
own nature and learned ourselves. But as we get older, people (parents,
teachers, etc.) wanted to control us. We got angry. Be like a tree.
A tree stays a tree no matter if you kick it or curse at it. It is in
harmony with itself. It doesn't care what you do. It is just being a
tree. But this is not the same with humans. We do not live in harmony
with our true nature, and we are swayed by the opinions and thoughts
of those outside of us.
We embrace our mistaken identities so deeply that they become our reality.
Appreciation does not refer to things outside yourself. Appreciate your
own life first. Appreciate when you fail. Appreciate when you try and
try again and still fail. Appreciate when you embarrass yourself Our
fundamental problem is that we are unhappy. So how do we turn it around?
Appreciate who you are. You are a Buddha. You are the best thing that
ever appeared on this whole planet. You are the greatest thing in the
whole universe. If you believe that there is nothing you cannot do with
your life, then there is nothing you cannot do. To believe that you
can do anything is to bring your life into harmony.
To chant Nam Myoho Renge Kyo is to put yourself in harmony. But it comes
from appreciating your own life. When your life is falling apart, try
and chant in that moment to appreciate your own life. If you are in
harmony it will turn around. Our lives have unbelievable power and wisdom,
but wisdom, but we don't trust ourselves and let it come forth. We always
look for validation outside and we'll never get it. If we validate ourselves,
we will be able to influence everything around us .
Challenge for March
No matter where my life is at, I will chant with the determination that
I will turn this situation around within one month. I'll take the responsibility
to make it happen. And in that one month, I'll create the biggest benefit
of my life.
The Daishonin said that the Treasure Tower in the Lotus Sutra is the
Gohonzon, and that each and every one of us who chants Nam Myoho Renge
Kyo is Many Treasures Buddha. If you believe that you are Many Treasures
Buddha, then the place where you are is the dwelling place of the Buddha
and the dream that you have is the Buddha's dream.
If, however, you begrudge your life, you will not be able to turn it
around. Again the March
Challenge: To turn your life around in one month:
1) Perceive the truth of your life.
2) Take responsibility for creating the greatest benefit you've ever
had.
Evervthing begins and ends wtih vou. Kyochi Myogo = oneness of the person
and the law. When you chant. you and the law become one.
Nam Myoho Renge Kyo encompasses everything in the universe. Chant that
your life and your goal will become one. You are the center of the universe.
Don't chant to overcome an obstacle. Don't chant about something out
there. Chant Nam Myoho Renge Kyo for the harmony of your own life. Chant
to perceive your own truth. Being a Buddha does not mean you are perfect.
It means you always turn the negative into a benefit.
We usually think of Appreciation as something outside of us. We appreciate
our
possessions or what someone does for us. But in Buddhism, Appreciation
is for our own life. We strive to appreciate the essence of our life,
whatever we are going through in the moment.
Our goal as Buddhists is to develop a correct view of our life. Nichiren
Daishonin said, "He who perceives the greatness of his life is
a Buddha. He who doesn't is a fool." Chant to realize that you
are the Buddha just as you are. Nam Myoho Renge Kyo allows the opportunity
to perceive who you truly are. When you perceive who you are, you will
naturally impact your environment.
It is not easy to appreciate your life, because your life does not want
to appreciate itself. Just try chanting daimoku for fifteen minutes
exclusively focusing on appreciating your life. Your mind will get distracted
and you will think about everything but appreciation. But strive to
stay focused on appreciation. Just as you are.
In our minds we judge our lives. We see part of our self as good and
part as bad. We believe we have to push everything to the positive side
to be happy. But you cannot do that. You just are who you are. There
is no such thing as Good BuddhaBad Buddha. There is only the Buddha.
Just as you are.
We are all just Buddhas. And sometimes we will do terrible things. Good
and bad exists because we are human beings. The only thing our stupidity
proves is that we are human. And there is not/ling wrong with that.
Being a Buddha means that we take the negative and turn it into a benefit.
When we take a negative circumstance and use it to validate a negative
belief about our self we are in misery. Because you haven't got the
job you've always wanted is not proof that your are a terrible and worthless
person. It is an opportunity to prove how wonderful you are as a human
being.
We are all dysfunctional somehow, and we believe it is the cause of
all our suffering. That is B.S. We buy into this belief so that we have
a reason to fail. We always have to have a reason to fail. Then negative
only perpetuates itself and gets deeper. Our Buddhahood exists inside
our dysfunction, too. If we manifest our Buddhahood and appreciate our
life, then our "dysfunction” will become our greatest benefit.
Nam Myoho Renge Kyo can turn anything around. Everything about our character
is unbelievably wonderful. We think we have to fix what we believe to
be broken, but in reality nothing is broken.
Appreciation
We need to find out how wonderful and powerful our life is. We can do
it in one night if we really appreciate our self. Appreciation does
not mean that you accept the circumstances. Again, it is not about something
outside of you. Appreciation has three qualities:
1) No matter what happens you do not betray your dreams/goals/self.
2) No matter what happens, you don't make any judgments about yourself
3) No matter what the situation in your life, you must turn it around.
It is unacceptable to be in a place where you are depressed. That
has to be our
fundamental attitude. If you are angry, make it the function of the
Buddha.
Whatever qualitv is fundamental to vour life. chant to appreciate it
and it will
bring out unbelievable power.
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